Catholic marriage is not simply the union of two people who love each other. It is a sacred covenant in which Jesus is the guest of honor and the fundamental pillar. As the popular wisdom inspired by faith says: "It is not two who marry, but three: he, she and Jesus."
This reality transforms everyday life together. In moments of difficulty, you are not alone; Christ, who blessed your union, is there to renew the wine of love as he did at the wedding at Cana. Understanding that God is an active part of the relationship allows spouses to love each other with a love that transcends the human, a love that is patient, serving and able to forgive.
As you exchange your wedding bands, remember that this circle without beginning or end symbolizes not only your mutual faithfulness, but the eternity of God's love that surrounds you.